The way you grieve isn't wrong, it's the way you need to process things and should be dictated only by what is healthy and comfortable for you. But like I said, it can be cathartic sharing your story. So thank you for taking the time to read mine.
One of the reasons I wanted to write this blog is because when I went to Google to find solidarity with other people in my situation... I didn't find anything. That was kind of a sucker punch to the gut, having that validation that yes, I am as strange as I secretly suspected. So for anyone out there who has had the same experiences, this is for you. You are not alone.
Written By K. YOU ARE PERFECT JUST THE WAY YOU ARE! I'm sorry, but that had to be yelled, in large font, to make sure that everybody was paying attention. This whole goddamned planet has been designed to grind into you all of the ways in which you fail; you're not attractive enough, you're not … Continue reading Fuck The World. You’re Perfect.
So what am I mad about? Women's clothes. From the arbitrary sizing to the terrible proportions to the lack of functional pockets. Plus size? Hahahaha. You only get a few stores to choose from. On a budget? Fuck you. You have to pay more. Get it? Because you're fat. Every part of the industry is some crazy bullshit that we've all grown so accustomed to that we don't even think to call "Shenanigans" on the whole facade.
Consent can seem like a confusing, frustrating subject. Basically it just means means that someone needs to have your permission before touching you in a sexual fashion (though in general, please always have consent before touching people. Respect the bubble, please). We've all pretty much agreed that “no means no” and that forcing someone to have sex with you after they have said no is a crime that should be punished. Outside of that, there appears to be some debate and I'd like to take a second to clear a few things up.
Written by Key: It doesn't seem correct to say my first orgasm was an accident. I think it was very intentional, I just didn't know what the outcome would be. My intentions were were to rub this part of my body that had felt good before, like when I sat on bike seats or when … Continue reading Tight Schedule
I have a confession for you. Are you ready? I’m learning how to love my own vagina. Such a simple concept. Many people have one, it is a functional part of our bodies and provides the owner with untold amounts of joy and pleasure. And yet, almost every woman I’ve ever talked to dislikes her vagina on some level.
Written By Troublemaker (the first part was written by K and M, but fuck 'em, I'm claiming this one) Hello, gentle readers. You may call me Troublemaker, as everyone does. I suppose introductions are probably in order, but that's tedious and no one really cares, so you may think of me as K and M's … Continue reading How to Woo a Lady (Alternative Title: Winking – How Much is Too Much?)
Written By M. I had my first orgasm by accident. My parents had just bought a fancy new shower head with a long hose and a lot of different settings. The first time I took a shower with it, I stood there for a while playing with the different settings, eventually deciding on a pulsing … Continue reading Girls Take FOREVER in the Shower
Written By K. My first orgasm was quite by accident, as it is for many of us. I was about 11, had been told firmly to go to bed, so I was flailing and squirming around, trying to get comfortable and generally bemoaning my bedtime. During my thrashing about, I thrust my pelvis into the … Continue reading But Seriously, Where is My Clit?